When Anxiety Turns Into Numbness: Understanding Hypoarousal

April 14, 2025

Uncover the silent side of anxiety—emotional shutdown and anxiety—and learn why your nervous system may be in a state of hypoarousal. Discover how to heal from this disconnect and start reconnecting with yourself today, enjoy the episode!

When we think about anxiety, most of us imagine racing thoughts, a pounding heart, restlessness, or panic. But what if your anxiety feels more like… nothing? Like you’ve lost your spark? Like you’re underwater, watching life happen around you but not really part of it?

In today’s episode of The Anxiety Guy Podcast, we’re diving into a side of anxiety that isn’t talked about nearly enough—emotional shutdown and anxiety.

This is called hypoarousal, and it’s just as real and valid as the more “activated” form of anxiety.

It’s a deep state of nervous system shutdown, where everything slows down—not in a peaceful, meditative way, but in a flat, disconnected, heavy way. You’re not energized. You’re not panicking. You’re just… done.

We’ll explore how hypoarousal is tied to unresolved trauma, emotional overwhelm, and chronic stress, and how it’s often mistaken for laziness or depression. But make no mistake—this is anxiety, too. It’s just gone into hibernation mode because it couldn’t keep sounding the alarm.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What the shutdown state of anxiety really is

  • Why your body and mind may be stuck here

  • How to gently reconnect with yourself when even brushing your teeth feels like too much

  • Why traditional anxiety tools might not work in this state—and what actually helps

If you’ve been feeling disconnected from life, overwhelmed by even the smallest decisions, or like you’re floating through your days without direction or feeling, you are not alone—and you are not broken.

And as a special bonus during our Easter Week Sale, you can get 30% off all science-backed anxiety recovery programs with the code Spring30.

Let’s talk about the anxiety that doesn’t shout—but whispers. Tune in above now, and make sure to comment on your own personal experiences with emotional shutdown and anxiety below.


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